Let's be honest, it's easy to get lazy when it comes to turning up the sexy in our own lives. Between work, kids, housework, pets, extended family, and friends, our time is limited and slacking off on certain things becomes a bad habit. By certain things, I'm referring to what lies beneath the clothes.
When is the last time you bought yourself sexy underwear just because it made you feel good? I'm not talking about spending a fortune either, just indulging in something lacy or silky because it feels good on your skin. You don't need an excuse to pamper yourself--no need to wait for an anniversary, if you're in a relationship--or a boyfriend for that matter, if you're single.
Knowing that you're wearing something sexy beneath the sweatpants as you're picking up the kids from school or beneath the conservative suit at work puts you back in touch with your femininity. No matter how independent we are as women, no matter how strong, there's something powerful about being in touch with our own sexuality.
Oh, and in case you just woke up and realized that it's 2012, hairy is out, girls. I don't care if you haven't had a boyfriend for a year or if your husband is snoring on the sofa by 9PM, shave your legs...etcetera. Wax, laser, whatever...maintain yourself. You just never know when an intimate moment may present itself. And educate your man on manscaping--hairy is OUT. (If you don't know what manscaping is well...think about it for a minute...hair...down there...very 1980s.)
Sexy lies in the little details that we often slack off when comfort sets in. Don't misunderstand; I'm all about comfort! But it doesn't take much effort to toss out ratty old underwear and replace it with new; nor does it take much effort to stay silky smooth.
You're not doing these things for someone else either--I want to emphasize that. You're doing these things because you deserve to feel pretty, you deserve to treat yourself well. The more confident you feel, the sexier you'll be. Like I said...trust me, I'm a romance novelist. *wink*
If you missed my first installment in the Ramp Up Your Sexy Series about the art of kissing, check it out here: http://amberleaeaston.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-art-of-kissing-romancing-blog-hop.html
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